Dialectical Behavior Therapy

The challenge you will face with a BPD person is making them to understand that they have BPD. What I have noticed from my experience that 'she' was repeatedly telling me that she wants to meet Psychotherapist. But whenever I have tried to take her to a Psychologist or Psychiatrist she was reluctant to come with me.

Unless and until she undergoes therapy she is going to repeat what she has done in her past: temporary relationships, borrowing money, changing the career goals, etc.

Following are the helpful links to the psychotherapy available for Borderline Personality Disorder:

https://psychcentral.com/lib/dialectical-behavior-therapy-in-the-treatment-of-borderline-personality-disorder/

Please note that her family and friends support is needed to do this. Ironically many friends are obstacles who is catering to the BPD.